‘Owning’ Your Actions Will Help You On The Road To Adulthood

Ah, ‘Adulting!’ Are you scratching your head at this point when I am referring to you as an ‘adult’? Is it freaking you out? Does it matter if we are ready (or not!) to grow up? It sure as hell does! Life doesn’t care for our apprehensions. We grow up, grow old, and the years roll on! Yet, adulthood doesn’t always feel right. It’s easily one of the ironies of life. When you’re a child you’re slightly envious of the the older generation, and you can’t wait to experience and enjoy the ‘freedom’ that is associated with ‘adulting.’ These childhood…Continue Reading

Here’s Where You Mess Up In Relationships – According To Your Zodiac Sign

We all have our flaws, our insecurities, our breaking points. But have you noticed how you end up with the same kind of relationships again and again – with the same problems? Then maybe it’s a possibility that you’re going wrong in some way. Here’s how you could be messing up your relationships, according to your zodiac sign. Aries (March 21st-April 19th) You’re a little inconsiderate. You make decisions without consulting your partner (which isn’t cool!) and don’t take no for an answer. This leaves your partner feeling unimportant and taken for granted. Try and have more open conversations with…Continue Reading

A Letter To My Younger Self

Hey, Kiddo! Been long that I sat back, introspected and gave a thought about you, or the person I was earlier.Today, I happened to sit on the balcony with my usual cup of tea and suddenly, before I realized, I traveled back in time and nostalgia took over! Whenever I’ve looked back and thought of the past, I’ve always blamed you and told myself that you were downright immature and silly. You know why I’ve always taken you for someone who’s irresponsible and stupid, right? You did make quite a few mistakes and maybe, I regretted those way too much.…Continue Reading

How My Worst Breakup Taught Me Life’s Most Important Lessons

I won’t lie. I wouldn’t want to relive the first half of 2016. It was the worst blow my heart’s taken in a long time, but to be honest if I was given a choice to erase that year out of my existence, I wouldn’t. Because no matter how messed up the first half of it had been, it was one of my favorite years in the almost-30 stint I am heading towards. I am assuming we’ve all been through a breakup that’s opened a gap within the center of our chests with constant pain spilling out. And mine was…Continue Reading

To Those Who Try To Change, But Mess Up The Same Way, Every Time

You little rebel, you. I know what it is like. Choosing to change every time you mess up, and ending up taking the same path and making the same mistakes you’ve made two hundred times before…I know. I know the painful easiness of letting yourself drown in the same waters over and over again, of letting yourself be engulfed by the familiar flow of life, giving up, accepting defeat, not breathing. Never breathing. Because your life is in a constant state of limbo. Nothing changes, you don’t remember the last time you felt like you’d grown. Achieved. Done anything worthwhile,…Continue Reading

10 Ways You May Be Killing Your Own Happiness

Hola, friends! (Why I choose to do the let’s insert-another-language greeting thing is beyooond me, anyway) I’ve come to realize lately that people around me, and I, we are doing things that make us unhappy all the time. We whine, complain, and go back to doing it. Why? What’s holding us back. So I did what I do, and I made a list. Get rid of this, you know you want to! You knew this one was coming: Stop overthinking. About anything, everything. Next time your head buzzes with thoughts of something for too long, simply ask “Will this matter…Continue Reading